Wednesday, March 12, 2008

Friendship

You Are An ESFP
The Performer

You are a natural performer and happiest when you're entertaining others.
A great friend, you are generous, fun-loving and optimistic.
You love to laugh - and you like almost all people equally.
You accept life as it is, and you do your best to make each day fantastic.

In love, you are a smooth talker and incorrigible flirt.
While you get into relationships easily, you don't tend to stick around when times get tough.

At work, you do well in groups. You keep everyone laughing through difficult tasks.
You would make a good actor, designer, or counselor.

How you see yourself: Capable, fair, and efficient

When other people don't get you, they see you as: Incompetent, stubborn, and silly


Hm.. I think I am rather free-spirited when it comes to having friends. If I get along with the person, I would be nice to him/her i.e. start with full marks first and deduct marks as time passes. I remember one girl saying she was wary of me cos' I seemed overly friendly but she realised in time that it was not a facade...

How do I put it? I give my friends the space they need, I respect their thoughts, I try to listen to their frustrations and heartaches... But I expect the same too. I do not like to be restrained/constrained in a friendship. Tie me up and this bird will fly away...

Hm I remember I used to be very close to this guy (whos really nice btw. Hes attached lah ha). We would talk everynight on ICQ and sometimes on phone. Hes the type who defines close friends as being in contact regularly while I feel that as long as the hearts are unchanged, friends remain close irregardless of time, space or contact. So we just drifted apart. No regrets on my part since its just a difference in thinking. Take care friend!

Well ontheotherhand, my stupid JC BEST MALE FRIEND MR YANZHENG has not picked up my calls or reply to my smses for at least 2 yrs I think. Hm... but simply put, I still treat him as my BEST MALE BUDDY even so...

Anyway as usual my posts are meandering along without a central theme or a main purpose. Thats the purpose of a diary right? Next post I think I should dedicate one to Shicai. After all he has never had the honour of a whole post from me abt him... haha ppl too shy lah... nothing mushy of course.

1 comment:

val: i believe in me => said...

hmm, i feel urs isnt v accurate. jean's one is quite spot-on. i dun have a post dedicated to me on ur blog as well... i want one too!!!